How to Prepare for A Psychic Reading

Write down your questions before the reading

  • This helps to focus your energy.

  • The more specific the question, the more specific the answer.

  • Write as many questions as you want, with the 3 most important questions at the top of the list.


Ask for the reading to be for your Highest Good and the Highest Good of all involved. Healthy skepticism is welcomed, but overt skepticism can negatively affect the reading

  • If you are coming with many pre-conceived notions or expectations, please keep in mind that energy is not conducive to receiving the best reading possible. Come with an open mind and heart. Every psychic is different; you may not receive the messages you want, but they are the impressions and feelings of your loved ones that Spirit wants you to have.

  • I don't mind skepticism; however, continued skepticism/negativism obstructs my work and concentration, which will yield less than effective results.

  • Be open to the messages that come through and give thanks for this special time with your guides, angels, loved ones, and the psychic.


Participate in the reading

  • Your energy is giving permission for your guides and loved ones to come through.

  • If you need clarification about a particular piece of information given, ask away!

  • Recording the session on your smartphone, or bringing a trusted friend to take notes for you (if that's okay with the psychic), may be beneficial, as you can review the reading throughout the year. Many readings are packed full of messages and information that cannot be absorbed completely during the session. It's beneficial to have the session recorded in order to review it for important information you may have forgotten, or possibly dismissed at the time as a "wrong" piece of information that ends up being correct and significant.


Avoid alcohol, cannabis, opioids, and stimulants before and after the reading

  • Alcohol is a depressant; it lowers your vibration. Therefore, it lowers the energy of the reading.

  • Other drugs negatively affect your body systems and disrupt your vibration as well. 

  • Legalized stimulants (caffeine) overstimulate your system, and can also interrupt the energy of the reading.

  • Since psychic mediums and Spirit vibrate at a higher frequency, it is best to be clear and free of toxins in order to be optimally open to the energies of the reading!


After the reading, be gentle with yourself...and drink lots of water!

  • Give yourself time to relax and reflect afterwards. Avoid doing anything strenuous, or stressful situations. Keep in mind that the messages will continue to reveal themselves, and you will continue "connecting the dots" of the reading, perhaps even for days/weeks afterwards. Keep listening, and watching for signs from the Universe!

  • Your energy is at a higher vibration directly after a reading, and drinking water helps keep your body grounded. Also, consider a walk in nature, listening to calming music, or a warm bath to ground and reflect on the experience.



Final Thoughts...​

Psychic mediums who genuinely care about your well-being will not insist that you come back to see them frequently unless you are working on a particular issue (energy healing/Reiki sessions, Life Purpose coaching, etc.) Any that do, and are not certified or licensed psychologists or life coaches along with their psychic mediumship abilities, may be attempting to take advantage of your emotional state. You may want to reconsider your relationship with that person.


Always trust your intuition!